Well, that's a good damn question. I used to think I had the answer to that but over the years, that answer has definitely changed. My answer used to consist of other people and their opinions, who I was depended on who needed me at the moment. I wanted everyone else to be happy and to approve of my life so much, that it caused a lot of personal conflict. Ended up dating more than a few Mr. Wrong's, moved around a lot, gained friends then lost them, ups and downs with family, went through a deep depression, then I said "enough is enough". Most people who have a "slap yourself" moment, they do so to remind themselves of who they are to get out of the rut they're in. In this case, I had to slap myself to open my eyes to the real me, I had to rid myself of the fear of not being good enough. Once I did that and embraced Meek, with no hesitation and no question, my quality of life began to improve drastically.
I was born in San Bernardino, California and lived in San Diego until I graduated High school in 2003. (Yes that makes me 32. lol) I moved from San Diego to Houston Texas to attend Prairie View A&M University, and I experienced a HUGE culture shock. Going from a predominantly white high school to an all black HBCU...talk about adjustment....a much needed one though. I fell in love with H-Town and it became home for me. A few years passed and I found myself missing the mark, not feeling fulfilled or accomplished in my life. Why? Because I was doing things that I thought would make other people happy instead of finding and doing what made me happy. When I did not receive the acknowledgement or praise that I expected from certain people, I would feel as though I had failed. "Well I did 'x' I just knew they would be happy about that..." but unfortunately, pleasing people is a never ending battle.
Most recently I relocated to the Dallas area from Houston. At the tender age of 31, I finally said, "It's Me Time" and meant it. I am no longer seeking approval from anyone in any way. I am strictly doing what makes me happy. I have always loved getting out and discovering things but i have felt more of an urge to do so since I relocated. On my journey now I find myself doing things I have never done before, saying things I was too afraid of saying and everyday, being the person I thought I could only be in my dreams. It is so unreal. Allowing myself to be free in all aspects of my life is the ultimate goal, that is the journey that I am on. It is not a smooth or easy journey by any means and since I know that I am not the only one who is on this same journey, I wanted to share mine to encourage, enlighten and engage.
In Dallas (and surrounding areas) there is so much to explore and share! I plan on getting out and sharing the best restaurants, museums, venues, bars, social events and maybe even planning a few social events of my own! As much as I love Texas, I enjoy a change of scenery as well! So I will be sure to share the best travel deals, vacation destinations, my different experiences with different cultures and fashion from around the world and so much more!!
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Thank you for the opportunity to connect with you! There is so much life out there and I want you and I to live all of it!!
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Love,
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Meek
